THE SCIENCE OF MAKING FRIENDS by Pratima Kandel

 

THE SCIENCE OF MAKING FRIENDS
Pratima Kandel
Pokhara College of Management

Many people believe in making several friends. However, other people think differently. According to them, a crowd of friends is no better than a few selected friends. In a situation like this, when people are divided, it is quite difficult to say who is right and who is wrong. But what is true about friends is that they are the people who always come forward with helping hands and help us at difficult times. 

If we have many friends, then the chances of getting timely help will be higher than if we have only a few friends. This is always true in our lives. This may be the reason many people around us prefer to have many friends. 

I have many friends, and like me, many of them believe in making many friends. However, I know some people who are introverted by nature. They are much happier within themselves than in a company. They have a limited circle of friends, and they are very satisfied with them. There are many people of this kind around us. 

When asked, they say that having a few friends is always better than having a crowd of friends. Whenever we are in trouble, many friends will definitely turn their faces away from us. A few others will even pretend as if they don’t know us. This does not sound good, but this is the truth. 

In the past, I used to have many friends, but nowadays I have realized that it is much better to have a few quality friends than a crowd of friends.

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